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California couples do not usually enter a divorce with the intention of it being a hostile one. Sometimes, hostile divorces are difficult to avoid. What are some tips you can use to keep your divorce amicable even through potentially difficult situations?

First of all, the attitude with which you approach the divorce is of key importance. Many people approach divorce while already holding their spouse in contempt. It is better if you approach the divorce in good faith. Try not to make assumptions about your spouse or their intentions. Treat each other with dignity and respect. This alone can go a long way to improving the situation.

Next, keep the big picture in mind. If you only look down at the ground directly in front of you, you are more likely to get tripped up. Instead, keep the end goal in mind. It is also important to have a decently solid plan for achieving your end goal. What do you want out of this divorce? What areas are you not willing to budge on, and where do you have a little more wiggle room?

Finally, keep expectations realistic. Not everything in an amicable divorce will go your way. Keeping things amiable is not always going to be easy. In some situations, you may have to admit that amicable divorce is not working out for you and that is okay. Do not force the situation or you may end up with even more regrets.

If you want to read more about the process of divorce in California, take a look at our linked web page. You can learn about the difference between amicable and hostile divorce. You can take a look at property laws within the state. You can review other divorce-related laws and much more.